Here’s a foolproof way to simplify your life and achieve more of your goals:
Accept responsibility as often as possible, even when you don’t have to. Here are ten reasons why.
1) You’ll stop worrying about who’s going to take care of a task. It’s always you. Affirm your ability to solve problems and complete tasks, and build self-confidence.
“Yeah, I can handle that; bring it on.”
2) Think about how much time and energy you’ve wasted trying to avoid or reassign responsibility. Waste no more.
“I’ll take responsibility for that. Now let’s get something accomplished together.”
3) You’ll become memorably unique.
“Oh you heard about that? Yeah, that’s me all over. I’m the person who actually enjoys being responsible.”
4) It’s the ultimate “paying it forward” opportunity. Everyone will be more attracted to you, and feel special–you value what they’re doing so much, you want to help them in a meaningful way. And they’ll feel grateful because you’ve relieved them of a burden.
“You’re a special person, with too much on your plate. Let me take responsibility so you can focus on more important stuff.”
5) It will help you bond with people you should work with, versus those who’ll try to take advantage of you.
“Bob, I notice you’re always trying to pass the buck. That isn’t my style. It’s been nice.”
6) And when you do fail (we all do)? You’ll have built up so much good will and recognition, nobody will be too critical. All those people who you’ve trained to become more responsible will be there to cover your back.
“Thanks Jane. I guess I couldn’t handle it by myself after all. Good thing I have friends like you!”
7) One thing we can all use more of is self-discipline and clarity (see #9).
“You all know me as the go-to person who takes care of business. Please help me get my facts straight, and tap into everyone’s expertise and resources!”
8) In the social media age, a leader is the man or woman who brings the most value to the table. Starting today you’ll quickly be identified as a leader, without really trying.
“Let’s tackle that issue together. I’ll take responsibility and you take the credit. How does that sound?”
9) One of my role models is the original fitness guru, Jack LaLanne (born in 1914). Everybody dismissed him as a kook fifty years ago, when he first jumped around doing exercises in Spandex on black-and-white TV. Now he looks a little silly, getting excited about juicers in cheesy infomercials. But he has spent decades making our jaws drop with incredible physical achievements and promoting self-discipline: “I do [exercise] as something to keep me alive. We all need a little discipline. Exercise is my discipline.” Why not make responsibility your discipline?
10) Enjoy the rest of your life more, because you’re so productive now.
“I got a lot done today, Lizzie. Let’s go outside and throw your Frisbee around for a while.”